😊 RetireHub Daily: Dating in Retirement | 05/26/2024

It is Sunday, May 26th, 2024

Dear RetireHub Daily Readers, how is the long weekend treating you so far? Time to enjoy another Sunday focused on Community and Connection, with all the usual deals, tips, and trivia.

On this day in 1940, the infamous Battle of Dunkirk began in Western France, a defensive evacuation of British and Allied troops that lasted until June 4th, 1940.

Do you know who directed the movie, “Dunkirk”, based on the Battle of Dunkirk? Test your knowledge in our trivia at the end of this newsletter.

Deal of the Day

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RETIREHUB POLL

Dating in Retirement: Things to Consider

Nobody paints a picture of retirement as a single person. But this is the reality for many. Whether we get widowed or decide to separate in retirement, it’s helpful to know how to “put yourself out there” again.

• Dating will be different—if the last time you dated was decades ago, expect the courtship to be a little different. You’ve both lived full lives, may have familes and grandkids. It won’t be the same as when you were young. But embrace the difference.

• You don’t have to go straight to the internet—getting out into the world is important. You could meet a lovely single person at group events. Agree to social invitations and join clubs to make meeting an available someone more likely.

• But online dating can be a great option—dating apps or websites such as plentyoffish.com let you browse different singles and message them before meeting. This can feel safer for many people.

• Be cautious—unfortunately, seniors can be targets for romance scams. Don’t share any information that can identify you (address, social security, banking info). If you meet up with someone, meet in a public place and tell a friend or family member where you’ll be.

• Don’t rush—being single is not the end of the world. Perhaps you’ll find you enjoy your own company and find companionship in friends and social activities. Don’t rush into a relationship just because you think you have to. Wait for the right person—or enjoy being single.

If you have any tips or stories about dating, reply to this email—we’ll share them next Sunday!

Yesterday’s Poll Results - Do you have a "green thumb" when it comes to gardening?

🌿 There are some green-thumbed RetireHub Daily readers! 34% “mostly” keep their gardens alive, while 21% have gardens that are “thriving”! However, 24% are not very successful, while 20% aren’t gardeners.

Thanks to everyone who voted and commented!

Our Favorite Comments:

We love hearing and sharing comments from our polls! While we can’t publish them all, we do read and appreciate every comment.

• “Nature is my oasis and self care. It does take dedication, money and effort for everything to thrive, but I love that I don't have to leave my home to connect with beauty and peace.”

• “At 8l years old, I can get down but I can't get back up! LOL I used to love gardening, but we put in a maintenance free, mostly evergreens, landscape and pay someone to care for it. There are 10 containers where I grow annuals, herbs, lettuce, etc. to add color around the property”

• “I'm excited on keeping my ONE plant alive!”

• “I can kill any plant within a week!”

WHAT WE’RE READING

SENIOR LIVING NEWS

Loving Your Body After 60

Where do our inner and outer challenges with age and more specifically, the idea of what constitutes physical beauty after 60, come from?

For years, millions of women have based their sense of self-worth on how others physically perceive them. Of course, there is nothing wrong with taking time to look and feel your best. The mounting stress of not feeling beautiful enough, however, takes an emotional toll on your well-being.

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Best Retirement Communities in 2024

Retirement communities, targeted at those 55 and older, attract seniors with the promise of state-of-the-art gyms, golf courses, dining options, and more—but not all of these developments are created equal.

Key Takeaways

•Retirement communities are for independent people age 55+, and offer special services and amenities for monthly fees

•Some communities, often Continuing Care Retirement Communities, also offer increasing levels of healthcare to accommodate your needs as you get older

•It’s important to weigh the cost of living in a retirement community, with HOA dues and other fees, against those entailed by other living arrangements, which could be less expensive

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Recipe of the Day: Pesto Pasta Salad (20 mins)

A creamy pesto sauce turns this simple pasta salad into a delightful dinner.

• 8 ounces whole-wheat fusilli (about 3 cups)

• 1 cup small broccoli florets

• 2 cups packed fresh basil leaves

• ¼ cup pine nuts, toasted

• ¼ cup grated Parmesan cheese

• 2 tablespoons mayonnaise

• 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil

• 2 tablespoons lemon juice

• 1 large clove garlic, quartered

• ¾ teaspoon salt

• ½ teaspoon ground pepper

• 1 cup quartered cherry tomatoes

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GOOD NEWS OF THE DAY

Scientists Grow Micro-Diamonds ‘from Scratch’ in 15 Minutes Thanks to Groundbreaking New Process

In South Korea, chemists have recently developed a way to grow artificial micro-diamonds in minutes, rather than days.

Furthermore, the technique doesn’t require high temperatures or intense pressure, and are made “from scratch” with the potential to revolutionize the diamond industry by providing unlimited micro-diamonds for polishing and cutting uses.

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Scientists Hopeful Medicinal CBD May Help Pets Suffering With Arthritis, Anxiety, and More

Evidence is growing that CBD, a non-psychoactive ingredient of cannabis, is potentially effective in treating various pet maladies, says Chie Mogi, lead veterinarian of the Animal CBD Research Society in Japan, who has reported such cases in veterinary publications.

Though the evidence for effectiveness is still mixed, and pet owners and researchers must contend with inconsistent ingredients, many scientists have hope that CBD can expand the therapeutic options for furry patients.

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